{"id":1552,"date":"2005-10-24T01:03:40","date_gmt":"2005-10-24T08:03:40","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T08:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=1552","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\\\"http:\/\/sfgate.com\/cgi-bin\/article.cgi?f=\/c\/a\/2005\/10\/22\/BAG37FCCAR16.DTL\\\">Murder in Lafayette, CA<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I have always complained about <a href=\\\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?p=1550\\\">high school<\/a>.  But I never got to the point where I would turn against everyone, even though I felt rejected.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, in my hometown of Lafayette&#8211;an affluent suburb of San Francisco located 30 minutes away&#8211;a 16 year kid killed a housewife without an unclear motive (yet).  This is the second murder in 10 years.  The boy attended the same schools I attended through Stanley Intermediate to Acalanes High, all schools well-adorned with high rankings and winning sport teams.  My parents moved my sister and me from Hercules for a better school district in 1990 for those very reasons, hoping in their minds that we would succeed in life.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, the question floats around the town now that teens are unstable.  They really are though.  It\\&#8217;s hard to be someone without independence, with adults thinking they know what is right and at the same time, someone struggling with the meaning of friendships, and a developing self-awareness.<\/p>\n<p>People want to blame it on a lack of good social structure in schools.  But it\\&#8217;s not only that.  Suburbia is disconnected.  People move alone in their cars to the grocery store and to work.  People don\\&#8217;t stop and chat at the local cafe.  Sidewalks are empty or like on my street in Lafayette, almost nonexistant.  My house is located far from the street too, a long driveway to the garage.  Trick-or-treaters never come.<\/p>\n<p>One of my friends said that living in the city is too fast paced, but in suburbia, it almost doesn\\&#8217;t have a pace.  We are all solitary, alone in our pods and in that way, we don\\&#8217;t form the relationships sometimes we really need.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Murder in Lafayette, CA I have always complained about high school. But I never got to the point where I would turn against everyone, even though I felt rejected. Recently, in my hometown of Lafayette&#8211;an affluent suburb of San Francisco &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=1552\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1552","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1552"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1552\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1552"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1552"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1552"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}