{"id":2391,"date":"2008-10-16T23:06:58","date_gmt":"2008-10-17T06:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2391"},"modified":"2008-10-16T23:06:58","modified_gmt":"2008-10-17T06:06:58","slug":"relaxing-isnt-for-the-active","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2391","title":{"rendered":"Relaxing isn&#8217;t for the active"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am a planner.  I get cabin fever easily.  I hate feeling like I am missing something (good).  I want to come back with a story.<\/p>\n<p>And so that&#8217;s my idea of a trip to an exotic destination.  Never in my plan would there be days of unplanned activities or days&#8230;of nothing.  Every day must have a purpose to exploit anything available.  I wouldn&#8217;t want to put myself in a position of <i>you missed something totally awesome<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, most people are not like me.  A vacation <i>is<\/i> a vacation.  It&#8217;s relaxation.  Vacation to me is time spent away from the every day\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthe moments where I can revel in what I enjoy doing whether it&#8217;s exercising my strengths and desires.<\/p>\n<p>Plan.  Execute.  Completion.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since taking the improv class, I have regrets of&#8230;I could be doing this and that.  A coworker observed once how many extracurriculars I have.  But it&#8217;s not entirely true.  I want to do everything and commit to a little.  Because there&#8217;s the yearning to always be active.<\/p>\n<p>What do you do on Thursdays?  Dinners with friends.  Freelancing.  Book-reading.  Cooking.  Talks and lectures.  Flash mobs.  Tutoring.  Other social events.<\/p>\n<p>Another strength I had from strengthfinder is responsibility.  I have trouble saying no.  And when I say yes, I will do it because I said I would.  Promises aren&#8217;t meant to be broken.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a planner. I get cabin fever easily. I hate feeling like I am missing something (good). I want to come back with a story. And so that&#8217;s my idea of a trip to an exotic destination. Never in &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2391\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2391","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2391"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2391\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2391"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2391"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2391"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}