{"id":3021,"date":"2010-07-10T23:59:08","date_gmt":"2010-07-11T06:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3021"},"modified":"2010-07-10T23:59:08","modified_gmt":"2010-07-11T06:59:08","slug":"what-is-a-real-dealbreaker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3021","title":{"rendered":"What is a real dealbreaker?"},"content":{"rendered":"

I thought about all the dealbreakers I normally would have for the significant other.
\nThe insistence for paying for cabs. The driving of a two seater. The inability to fix my computer. And more.<\/p>\n

But then I thought about it more. Are they even real? Could I deal with it if I compromised…and let my stubborn requirements go?<\/p>\n

Probably.<\/p>\n

But here’s real dealbreakers:<\/p>\n

  • Inability to talk easily with my parents (and my parents are so easy to talk to)<\/li>\n
  • Lack of compromise and collaboration for my behavior, beliefs, etc.<\/li>\n
  • Lack of understanding for those above<\/li>\n

    That’s really it. Because everything else can be adjusted to what will work well for the both of us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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