{"id":3030,"date":"2010-07-20T23:32:21","date_gmt":"2010-07-21T06:32:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3030"},"modified":"2010-07-20T23:32:21","modified_gmt":"2010-07-21T06:32:21","slug":"i-dont-know-his-last-name","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3030","title":{"rendered":"I don&#8217;t know his last name"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I have no idea what Chris&#8217; last name is,&#8221; he said over im when trying to set up a man date.<\/p>\n<p>I felt almost insulted.  More appalled.  <\/p>\n<p>This friend and Chris have met up with each other intermittently over the past few years, especially when I am around.  But could there be an excuse?<\/p>\n<p>1. They met at least three years ago.  However, any contact that they have had has been through me.<\/p>\n<p>2. We stayed at the friend&#8217;s place in the summer of 2008.  I didn&#8217;t mention his last name.<\/p>\n<p>3. I post photos on facebook tagging Chris.  But perhaps the friend never noticed the tag.<\/p>\n<p>4. I send email blasts to many many many friends often cc&#8217;ing Chris.  But perhaps he never looks at the recepients&#8230;even when Chris rarely if ever replies.<\/p>\n<p>And so forth.  Well it probably could be possible.  Now!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I have no idea what Chris&#8217; last name is,&#8221; he said over im when trying to set up a man date. I felt almost insulted. More appalled. This friend and Chris have met up with each other intermittently over the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3030\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3030","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3030","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3030"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3030\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3031,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3030\/revisions\/3031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3030"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3030"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3030"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}