{"id":3709,"date":"2011-10-20T23:57:51","date_gmt":"2011-10-21T06:57:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3709"},"modified":"2011-10-21T00:02:40","modified_gmt":"2011-10-21T07:02:40","slug":"you-cant-tell-an-adult-dont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3709","title":{"rendered":"You can&#8217;t tell an adult &#8220;don&#8217;t&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To a child, you can say <i>don&#8217;t<\/i> and they will obey (most of the time).<\/p>\n<p>But to someone much older, it seems that it has to be come within.  Otherwise, it becomes deep-seated guilt, blame and fear.<\/p>\n<p>Or even <i>do<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>I have an internal rebel inside me and at my age, reverse psychology works on me even as I am aware of it.<\/p>\n<p>But with the right trickery and presentation of potential awards, I can potentially be convinced.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To a child, you can say don&#8217;t and they will obey (most of the time). But to someone much older, it seems that it has to be come within. Otherwise, it becomes deep-seated guilt, blame and fear. Or even do. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3709\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3709"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3709\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3711,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3709\/revisions\/3711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}