{"id":4266,"date":"2013-04-01T23:58:08","date_gmt":"2013-04-02T06:58:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4266"},"modified":"2013-04-01T23:58:08","modified_gmt":"2013-04-02T06:58:08","slug":"nine-years-ago-she-wrote-something-sweet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4266","title":{"rendered":"Nine years ago, she wrote something sweet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;We&#8217;ll grow old together,&#8221; she wrote. &#8220;And complain about our husbands.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I remember feeling touched and hopeful that life was going to be different.  A friend for life.<\/p>\n<p>Then in the decade, through words exchanged, cars rides given, moves across the country, meals shared, failed attempts, carried hopes, bikes, gifts, houses purchased, places rented&#8230;distance grew despite living in the same city.  I moved in my circle and she in hers.<\/p>\n<p>Then today, I smiled faintly as digital photos of happiness scroll across my screen.  It&#8217;s better this way, I think.  No words exchanged, plausible deniability expected.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;We&#8217;ll grow old together,&#8221; she wrote. &#8220;And complain about our husbands.&#8221; I remember feeling touched and hopeful that life was going to be different. A friend for life. Then in the decade, through words exchanged, cars rides given, moves across &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4266\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4266","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4266","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4266"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4266\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4267,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4266\/revisions\/4267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4266"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4266"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4266"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}