{"id":4590,"date":"2014-01-23T23:56:58","date_gmt":"2014-01-24T07:56:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4590"},"modified":"2014-01-23T23:56:58","modified_gmt":"2014-01-24T07:56:58","slug":"she-had-a-little-bit-of-green","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4590","title":{"rendered":"She had a little bit of green"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Instead of doing the &#8220;right thing&#8221;, we continued chatting while she had some salad in her teeth.  After all, it only distracted me 10% of the time since I only saw it when she opened her mouth wide (when she laughed).  And it was late and it was getting dark and she was going home soon&#8230;so what&#8217;s the deal?<\/p>\n<p>Knowing how I would have reacted, I didn&#8217;t want to break her flow.  I would have embarrassed&#8230;so embarrassed so especially during the awkward moment where someone would say <i>no, your left, just a bit more, back to the right, no, there you got some of it, got it<\/i>.  That it would have frazzled me for a good ten minutes.  In less than five seconds, I pondered saying something, but the moment passed by.  Because I just couldn&#8217;t bring myself to say something.  To spare her the future agony.  Allowing herself or someone else tell her&#8230;or hopefully let it wash it away later.<\/p>\n<p>So then we talked.  Small talk.  Professional chat.  Challenges in our professional lives.  Ways to overcome challenges.  Our personal interests.  The service where we met professionally.<\/p>\n<p>And then suddenly the hour was over.  &#8220;Oh! I have to go,&#8221; she said looking down at her phone exactly an hour after we started speaking.<\/p>\n<p>We parted ways, and I let the little bit of green stay.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Instead of doing the &#8220;right thing&#8221;, we continued chatting while she had some salad in her teeth. After all, it only distracted me 10% of the time since I only saw it when she opened her mouth wide (when she &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4590\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4590","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4590","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4590"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4590\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4591,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4590\/revisions\/4591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4590"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4590"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4590"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}