{"id":5511,"date":"2016-08-03T23:52:42","date_gmt":"2016-08-04T06:52:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5511"},"modified":"2016-08-03T23:52:42","modified_gmt":"2016-08-04T06:52:42","slug":"a-trick-during-a-moment-of-back-and-forth-stabs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5511","title":{"rendered":"A trick during a moment of back-and-forth stabs"},"content":{"rendered":"

Stop accusation. Stop saying “you did so and so<\/i>, and I didn’t like it.” Not even “I feel insert emotion<\/i> when so and so<\/i>.”<\/p>\n

Add “I understand that” and repeat what the other said in second person. “I understand that you are insert emotion<\/i> when so and so<\/i>.”<\/p>\n

For me, it works wonders. Because I just want to be understood.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Stop accusation. Stop saying “you did so and so, and I didn’t like it.” Not even “I feel insert emotion when so and so.” Add “I understand that” and repeat what the other said in second person. “I understand that … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5511"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5512,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5511\/revisions\/5512"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}