{"id":5611,"date":"2017-01-11T23:59:03","date_gmt":"2017-01-12T07:59:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5611"},"modified":"2017-01-11T23:59:03","modified_gmt":"2017-01-12T07:59:03","slug":"i-am-busy-but-i-make-time-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5611","title":{"rendered":"I am busy, but I make time for you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In college, a former boy interest said that he was too busy to call me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What do you mean by that?&#8221; I said, feeling anger cursing through my veins and tears squeezing through my eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Thousands of thoughts went through my head, but the most prominent one was: He&#8217;s at a third-rate college.  How can he possibly be more busy than I am? Yes, I had an elitist streak then\u00e2\u20ac\u201dI was a top public university in the nation in my senior year.  I was not only working part-time as a research assistant, I was also working as a residential computing consultant.  I was taking the GRE for graduate school.  I was an officer for a club.  I had tons of projects then.  Intense classwork.  And he&#8230;I don&#8217;t even remember now what major he studied.  But it was certainly not comparable to anything I was doing.  How could he possibly be busy?<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, he was finding an excuse for being unable to end things so explicitly.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, in the midst of all of it, I still made time.  Because I found it that important.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In college, a former boy interest said that he was too busy to call me. &#8220;What do you mean by that?&#8221; I said, feeling anger cursing through my veins and tears squeezing through my eyes. Thousands of thoughts went through &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5611\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5611","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5611","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5611"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5611\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5612,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5611\/revisions\/5612"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5611"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5611"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5611"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}