{"id":5775,"date":"2017-12-24T00:21:36","date_gmt":"2017-12-24T08:21:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5775"},"modified":"2018-12-16T17:03:51","modified_gmt":"2018-12-17T01:03:51","slug":"2017-letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5775","title":{"rendered":"2017: Letting Go"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Let Go. What (or whom) did you let go of this year? Why?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3278\">2010<\/a>, it was a person. In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3798\">2011<\/a>, it was an idea.  In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4147\">2012<\/a>, it was a symbol represented by a person.  In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4553\">2013<\/a>, I let go fear. In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4955\">2014<\/a>, I let go of humility (or the desire to appear humble). In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5284\">2015<\/a>, I let go of perfection. In <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5583\">2016<\/a>, I let go of expectations.<\/p>\n<p>This year, I am letting go of things and people I don&#8217;t need.  Specifically things that bring me down.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s always this perception that I should keep <i>things<\/i> just in case.  On the materialistic side, this can result in hoarding, building up unopened items, desires, and more&#8230;all of which lead to disappointment.  It might be konmari-ing everything in my life, but it&#8217;s really about simplification so that I can dedicate my energy to where I want.  And as I get older, I care less about what other people think.<\/p>\n<p>Previous to this year, I had believed that it was important to surround myself with people that would challenge to me. To an extent yes, but why should I if on a daily basis, they drain me and offer so little support?  Or even any potential of a future benefit?<\/p>\n<p>So I let go of those and things that can&#8217;t satisfy me. Because I don&#8217;t need them.  I don&#8217;t want them.<\/p>\n<p>And for once, I feel free.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let Go. What (or whom) did you let go of this year? Why? In 2010, it was a person. In 2011, it was an idea. In 2012, it was a symbol represented by a person. In 2013, I let go &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5775\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5775","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5775","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5775"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5775\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5776,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5775\/revisions\/5776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5775"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5775"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5775"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}