{"id":6705,"date":"2026-05-18T18:57:27","date_gmt":"2026-05-19T01:57:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6705"},"modified":"2026-05-18T18:57:27","modified_gmt":"2026-05-19T01:57:27","slug":"2026-birthday-wishlist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6705","title":{"rendered":"2026 Birthday Wishlist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Previous years: <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6660\">forgotten year in 2025<\/a> (because it was <i>that<\/i> year), <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6556\">2024<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6422\">2023<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6302\">2022<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?m=202105\">2021<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5993\">2020<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5907\">2019<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5827\">2018<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5679\">2017<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5419\">2016<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=5101\">2015<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4703\">2014<\/a>, <a hrf=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=4309\">2013<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=3944\">2012<\/a>, forgotten year in 2011, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2927\">2010<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2489\">2009<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=2286\">2008<\/a>, a forgotten year of 2007, <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=1762\">2006<\/a>,  <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?p=1353\">2005<\/a>,  <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?p=984\">2004<\/a>,  <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?p=505\">2003<\/a>,  <a href=\"http:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?p=281\">2002<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I keep thinking that this would be my last year that I could have a birthday in my very own way, because of life events. But who knows, maybe I&#8217;ll always be like this. Because I have always believed that the time when I was in middle school, sitting silently and I told a teacher that it was my birthday and she said happy birthday to me that I realized that the only way that people would know about my birthday is if people were told about it.<\/p>\n<p>So I had to make a big deal about it.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, I didn&#8217;t think about it any differently. I could have thought about being silent about it. But I chose to react about people not knowing (or forgetting) about feeling sad or not caring. But more than anything, I wanted people to care. So here&#8217;s my birthday wishlist!<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>That everyone stays healthy! Both physically and mentally!<\/li>\n<li>Fruit, fruit, fruit, especially because of that health directive to increase fiber<\/li>\n<li>Someone to help us organize and clear out our place and his mom&#8217;s place in a way that provides the maximum value possibl<\/li>\n<li>And somehow an easy way to navigate out of the complexity of THAT place<\/li>\n<li>Maybe &#8220;understand&#8221; his dad<\/li>\n<li>That obviously I don&#8217;t get laid off \/ fired<\/li>\n<li>Same thing for him<\/li>\n<li>That whatever happens to the FET happens in the least painful way<\/li>\n<li>That the friendships and family keep the bonds strong<\/li>\n<li>Finish my novel!<\/li>\n<li>Find the connections to make my novel publishable<\/li>\n<li>That this birthday partee makes it!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Previous years: forgotten year in 2025 (because it was that year), 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, forgotten year in 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, a forgotten year of 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004, 2003, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=6705\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6705"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6705\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6706,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6705\/revisions\/6706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}