{"id":917,"date":"2004-03-07T21:44:02","date_gmt":"2004-03-08T05:44:02","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T08:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=917","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Now that I have been accepted to Carnegie Mellon, I am sort of glad that UMich is out of the picture.  For the past few weeks, I was trying to convince myself that it\\&#8217;s okay to be in the midwest.  It\\&#8217;s okay to be around thousands of religious conservatives (hey that\\&#8217;s my perception of the midwest).  And the winter.  And that I won\\&#8217;t be in a state that permits same-sex civil unions (not that it matters to me, but still).<\/p>\n<p>And I would be surrounded by relatives that rarely communicate with family in California (my youngest cousin is going to attend umich as an undergraduate).  Last week, I almost choked when my aunt (visiting the Bay Area) said that her youngest son could pick me up from UMich to go to Thanksgiving at her house.  Thank you&#8230;but no thanks?  Along with my sister, I feel like I am treated as the silent child (of the shining star of the family, my father) to be admired.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, <a href=\\\"http:\/\/www.alecky.com\\\">Alecky<\/a> told his family that I was going to visit UMich during their visiting days.  To my amusement, his mother and brother told him (probably in a hushed voice so that my Berkeleyean mind wouldn\\&#8217;t eavesdrop over 3000 miles), \\&#8221;Alec, she\\&#8217;s a bad influence.\\&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Me a bad influence with my brand name undergraduate education?  My high scores in relability and determination?  My dependability?  Bad influence?<\/p>\n<p>I proceeded to tell Alecky to give his mother <i>bad influence<\/i> for her birthday.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now that I have been accepted to Carnegie Mellon, I am sort of glad that UMich is out of the picture. For the past few weeks, I was trying to convince myself that it\\&#8217;s okay to be in the midwest. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/?p=917\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-917","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=917"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/917\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=917"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/of.jennism.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}