If you meet someone who is quiet, you don\’t think of much of it. You think she\’s shy, she just doesn\’t have much to say. If you meet someone who says a lot, you automatically make judgments. You think she\’s outgoing, obnoxious, annoying, or too friendly.
But if you don\’t take the risk to say something, you won\’t get anywhere at all. I used to stay quiet, and take the safe route of saying nothing at all. And nowadays, I take that risk, because I don\’t want to be the shy one. Yet, I feel like I am saying the wrong thing. I don\’t want to be annoying or irritating. And I don\’t mean to be. Maybe it\’s just another case of Mondays.
sounds like a lose-lose situation :(
you shouldn\’t worry about it so much.. be yourself.. only people that accept it should be your friends anyways.
heh.. or maybe you shouldn\’t be listening to me.. i might be overly positive for a while….
i know why you are, chwong!