When I moved to San Francisco, I thought I should upgrade to a fullsize. You know, just so that I could be adult.

I diligently researched possible retailers. Then determined my budget.

And I thought I was so brillant when I came upon Dirt Cheap Mattress. I spent only $500 on a so-called luxurious bed set. I was so happy to find the ultra plush Simmons with a pillow top. I spent the following weeks researching the best sheet sets and other things.

My roommate didn’t agree with me and went to buy his bed at Ikea.

Now about 1.5 years later, I wish I went the standard normal route. The bed sags in the middle. Unlike my younger self, I don’t jump on the bed. It doesn’t hurt my back yet, but people who have come over…complained. I am happy sinking into the mush.

And so today, I reluctantly went to try buying real beds at real retailers. It was confusing. The same mattresses with different labels at different retailers. How could I justify spending so much money when I may leave the Bay Area? What if I suddenly decide to upgrade to a queen? And what if?

And the funny thing is, I am much more willing to spend more money on a computer than a bed. Chris did point out that I spend most of my day on the computer than on the bed.