An awkward moment is when your significant other’s bestest closest male friend makes small talk with your sister at a recent football and is told that she’s the opposite of you—that she is inherently more social and extroverted—and he deliberately flirts with her on Facebook but she thinks it’s a joke and you think it’s funny too and you encourage her to just hang out and they do on a Friday night which leads to a long 4 hour happy hour where he lets her win in pool and various contests but you already know your sister prefers a different type and is really looking for company since she’s moving in less than a month but unfortunately he didn’t get the memo and thinks there’s something more than there really is and you spend the rest of the Friday evening wondering if she’s ok and really it was he who wasn’t ok because she stood in shock in the middle of downtown when he made a move and you say Be mature and talk it out when she returns and they do, but you know the very next time you see him in person, he won’t feel compelled to talk as freely and there will be silence that blankets the room because you yourself feel mixed about what happened because you knew it was never meant to be in the beginning.