Or I will mark “No” if I cannot make it. Or mark “Maybe” if there’s a definite chance that I can attend.

But if I have a so-so event conflict or indecision about the host…I stay…indecisive and mark nothing at all. Regardless of it all, I will always state something of the event. Because when asked a question, I have this innate urgency to respond.

Stupidly, I often attend any event I am invited to…because I can’t say no.

Oddly enough, Chris is the opposite. He likes to tell mark yes, no, maybe at the very last minute. Because not only does it add excitement, but if he marks it at the last minute, his name will pop up as the first name in the list.