To a child, you can say don’t and they will obey (most of the time).
But to someone much older, it seems that it has to be come within. Otherwise, it becomes deep-seated guilt, blame and fear.
Or even do.
I have an internal rebel inside me and at my age, reverse psychology works on me even as I am aware of it.
But with the right trickery and presentation of potential awards, I can potentially be convinced.