men and women can’t be friends because the sex part always gets in the way

“I once got into trouble when I had lunch with a female friend,” he said. “The wife wasn’t too happy.”

I was caught off guard. Lose all my male friends when if I ever settle? Even as platonic as they are. Or even if I think they’re so idiotic that sometimes I wouldn’t let them hug me?

“The boyfriend said that you couldn’t just have guy friends stay over,” a friend said recently. “It’s something that I was supposed to know—things that you’re not supposed to do in a long distance relationship.”

In some way, I don’t understand the concept of how people can disappear once they’re in a relationship. How do they deal with the lack of space? How do they fulfill all aspects of their life since one person cannot adequately do it all? How do they become jealous of the unknown? Or is it because it’s unpredictable? Should they get mad at the significant other or the unknown person…who caused the damage?

Or is it the sex part?

3 thoughts on “men and women can’t be friends because the sex part always gets in the way

  1. We were talking today at work that it’s not REALLY surprsiing that people often cheat with their best mats/inner circle. given how much you all already have ihn common

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