On June 25, 2006…

Just over a year ago, I went to the San Francisco Pride Parade with people I knew from NASA. It was hot on Market Street and we struggled to find each other, with phone calls of where are you and what’s in front of you. Around 4 pm or so, I hopped onto a BART bound for the East Bay and got off at Lake Merrit. I was feeling tired, but I never break promises. The station was nearly desolate except for a lone wanderer.

In the distance as I walked, I saw the large rubber duck floating on Lake Merrit. Part of the lake was filled with rubber duckies floating merrily. The derby was smaller than I thought. There were a lot of people on the hill behind the Children’s Fairyland. I scanned the grass and looked for people I recognized. And I spotted them, up high spread on blankets. I walked over and greeted everyone. I really only knew one person well and the other few I knew distinctly as aquaintances.

Afterwards, someone suggested we go get tacos off of International—the ghetto part of Oakland. I had just wanted something like that. We all packed into an Acura Legend, reminding me of my dad’s 1988 car. I sat in the left back, thankful for not sitting in the middle.

There at the trucks, I bought a taco because I don’t like beans. Then I bought a horchata from another truck. I sat across from Chris and noted how he got one too. It was really the first time we had a conversation of substance. He and I both found out that we always try to get a horchata anytime we had mexican. I made fun of his man purse and gave him my Carnegie Mellon business card because he said he would help me find a job.

He never really did give me any referrals for jobs.

Bored of blogging?

Never? It’s just that I have been distracted. Today, it was this.

One of my friends said that being a designer sucked him out of creativity. For me, it hasn’t ever changed. I am still willing to spend my entire evenings in front of a computer. Hi, I am a geek!

Upgrade the decor

The lovely thisnext.com does it all for me. I am going to splurge $$$ right now. After all unlike some people I know who spend $10+ for lunch out each day, I eat in. Plus, I haven’t ever bought an alcoholic drink at a bar (except once for a friend). So in some way, does that rationalize me spending money on home decor…that I probably don’t really need?

I think so.

His mind is not mine

We were in the elevator since they had closed the down escalator for maintenance. So I waited patiently hugging a new pillow to my chest. The elevator doors sprung open and we piled in. I stood awkwardly at the front for a moment realizing that all the open spots at the elevator walls were taken. Eventually, I simply moved to the back.

Then someone pressed a button. I stared in anguish, a bit too far to correct the problem. Someone had pressed the B button, the last one in the elevator. And when we arrived, the nearly 10 of us, it was the basement of clothes. A few of us laughed awkwardly. Then a guy pressed 2. Probably the same guy that pressed B.

I muttered, “You might want to press G.” Like you know the one with the star. But I didn’t want to make a fuss and stood there in silence as we went to 2.

And so we arrived at 2. The second floor and I was slightly irked as I made my way to the cashier with my pillow down the escalator to ground floor.

But who knows pressing G might meant we would land in a supply closet? Seriously.

On commenting

I recently came across the most hated comment on Digg.

It’s rather ridiculous and immature the response he got. But the fact is that he left a somewhat banal comment that can come across as spam aka check-out-my-website. Back in the early days of Internet social networking, it was fine to do that. But overtime, it’s more about the content rather than the referals.

Besides, I want to feel close to you first by talking and getting to know you. Not by you giving me your business card asking me to pay a visit on my own dime. But perhaps that’s the way the real world is for some people.

On the search for cheap but HEALTHY food

I live in San Francisco. In the mission. I am a hipster. I use a powerbook. I barely have anything on my walls of my apartment. I don’t drive a car. I don’t even have a tv. I am cheap.

But despite that, I don’t like burritos. Like the way I don’t like sandwiches. The beans and everything put together with…the worst part melted cheese makes me gag. But what shall a frugal one do in San Francisco?

Read the guide to burrito-free SF street food, of course!

Although now reading that…well, ok I can’t do any better. Maybe the pho and Indian restaurants in the Tenderloin. To be surrounded by the unwanted of society in the clear bright cafeteria lights of a poorly decorated hole in the wall. With good food. Really.